Renowned Hawaiʻi music group Kapena — which has entertained audiences for 40-plus years with a vibrant blend of traditional Hawaiian sounds, reggae, world music and contemporary island influences — releases its new single “Not Living for the Likes” on Friday, May 29.
The new song will be available on all major streaming platforms.

“Not Living for the Likes,” written by band founder Kelly Boy De Lima and produced by Kapena De Lima, is an uplifting island-pop song about breaking free from the pressure of social media and learning to find real self-worth outside of online validation.
Its positive energy, relatable storytelling and feel-good rhythms deliver a timely message for anyone who ever felt the weight of comparison, likes, followers or numbers on a screen.
“Not Living for the Likes” at its core reminds listeners that their value does not come from outside approval.
It encourages people to stop measuring themselves against highlight reels and instead focus on living authentically, finding peace within themselves and embracing who their true selves.
“This song is a reminder that our worth is not measured by likes, followers or numbers on a screen,” said Kelly Boy De Lima in an announcement about the new single’s upcoming release. “I wanted to create something uplifting that encourages people to stop comparing themselves and start living with confidence, peace and purpose.”
The lyric “used to measure my worth by the things that I’d see, but a number on a screen doesn’t define me” captures the heart of the record, speaking directly to the emotional impact of social media and personal journey of overcoming insecurity, comparison and need for digital approval.
“Not Living for the Likes” blends modern pop influences with Kapena’s signature island sound, creating a song that feels reflective and empowering.
The result: a feel-good anthem with a meaningful message, designed to uplift listeners while giving them something honest and relatable.

Kapena is a household name in Hawai‘i music, known for catchy melodies, heartfelt lyrics and rhythms that bring people together.
The group continues as a multi-generational family band, with De Lima performing alongside his children and grandson.
Their music reflects a deep connection to family, culture and community while continuing to evolve for new generations of listeners.
